Spreadding the love Throwout

Well, it is Thursday again. Time for me to make the words and say the things. I have been doing an abundance of editing for the past week, so nothing new to share.  But I do, however need to get some things off my chest.

So often do I get stuck in my own rut, that I forget about those around me. I forget that we all are going through our own hard times. I forget how to be a good friend. Well, if you are one of these friends I apologize.

This unedited, unfiltered, unabashed piece of unadulterated love is for you.

To the friend who is lost between her past twenty years, and her next twenty. The one who is torn between the love of her life, and starting anew. I fucking think about you every day. You are one of the most beautiful souls I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You are my sister in every sense of the word, and I hope you know that. My love, no one can tell you what path to take. I only know that a clear eye will help you make that decision. If you need me, I am all ears.

To the crazy strong single mom.  You have so much love to give. You are like a sun and everyone gravitates toward you. I wish you could see how special you are from my perspective. Your worth is not now, nor has it ever been, connected to a man. You are a smart, beautiful, exuberant, woman. I am constantly amazed by you. You are now, and shall ever be my family. Stay strong, pursue your dreams, accomplish your goals, you are a force to be reckoned with.

To the woman who is putting herself back together. You amaze me. You face your fears daily, just walking out your front door. Even after everything you have been through you choose to rise. You are kind, generous, and not afraid to give your heart away again and again. You my friend, will come through this a mother fucking badass. Why? Because no one can go through what you have and not rock some kick ass scars, that scream. I. Fucking. Won.  Every day you soldier fourth, is another middle finger in the face of all that haunts you.

To my bourbon drinking, ass kicking, fabulous piece of blond ambition. You my friend are proof the best things come in small packages. Amazing is far too tame a word for you. I know being the strong one isn’t always easy, but your grace under fire is something I wish I could emulate. You know exactly who you are and don’t compromise for anyone. You have worked your ass off to get to where you are today and the whole world should recognize. So go on and pin the world to the floor with the tip of your stiletto, and know full well that under Boss Bitch in the dictionary, is a picture of you.

To my fiery ginger pirate. If I could channel a sliver of your talent, your attitude, and your spirit, my heart would likely explode. Not only have you overcome, but also you persevered. Even through the pain, you managed to bleed so much love on to paper, people clamor to know you. Not everyone can get themselves noticed like you. It takes talent to spank smug with an eloquent backhand, but you have mastered that art.  You are original and genuine and an epic human being. Keep doing the thing, because, it is the air we breathe.

To the sweet soul  who finally reached out.  I fell in love with your heart the minute you extended your hand to mine. Kindred spirits in different time zones. I know where you are right now and I want you to know that I am here, but you don’t have to go it alone. We can climb the face of this cliff together. When you are tiered, I will carry you, because you are tiny. All joking aside, you are talented, and fantastic, and we are all blessed to call you friend. When things seem their darkest, just know, you will always be a light for us.

To my professional mentor.  It is amazing how it often feels like we are the same soul split in two. Our paths are so similar, I often believe that you were brought to me to show me what I could have been had I chosen differently. You command respect, and even though I know you are hurting, no one would be able to tell. You hold your head high, because you understand.  The difference between wanting and having is sometimes an un-crossable chasm.  Take the leap, love, you never know if you can fly until you spread your wings.

To my friend who sat on the swing, only to tell me what I already knew. The courage behind that act alone would be enough to make everyone love you. You have a huge heart my friend. I just wish you would keep some for yourself sometimes. DO NOT ever change, DO NOT compromise your values. If someone makes you feel unworthy for a second, it is only because they are unworthy of you. Go fourth and be epic, follow your dreams, it is what you were born to do.

I know I am missing at least fifty people on this list. If I poured my entire heart on to this page, it would be a novel. Please know that I love you. I appreciate every kind word, every message, every silly picture, every hug. I want nothing more than to hand you a world of happiness on a platter. It hurts my heart to see you sad. If you need me, I will do my best, in my awkward way, to help.  Just give the word.

 

~~~Insert cheesy James Taylor song here~~~

 XOXOXOX